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17 04, 2018

Parenting in the Digital Age Part 2 – Rose Colored Glasses

By |2018-04-20T10:03:34-06:00April 17th, 2018|Family Culture, Parenting, Relationship|

Last week in our Playing with Fire letter, we highlighted three areas that Moms and Dad should have awareness and understanding as they parent in the Digital Age. Health Effects – Brain Development, Melatonin & Dopamine Safety Issues – Cyber Bullying, Identify Theft, Online Predators Behavior Complications – Moods, Empathy & Relationships The research and information in these areas provides you with knowledge you need to form a healthy perspective without fearing the challenges that [...]

10 04, 2018

Parenting in the Digital Age Part 1- Playing with Fire

By |2018-04-10T08:07:30-06:00April 10th, 2018|Family Culture, Health, Parenting|

Do you have a 4 year old that uses a tablet or 13 year old that is glued to their phone? If so, you have a Screenager!  A Screenager is any toddler, child or teen that actively uses digital media or technology.  And while there are many wonderful aspects of our Digital Age, there are also many challenges that come with it! Over the next three weeks, our goal is to equip and encourage you [...]

12 03, 2018

Finding Balance

By |2018-03-13T07:29:19-06:00March 12th, 2018|Family Culture, Personal|

When our boys were younger we overloaded and overwhelmed our lives by trying to take advantage of every opportunity life presented.  We believed that we had plenty of time and life would get less busy and overwhelming in the near future.   We naively thought balance and getting less busy in our lives would somehow occur on its own.  Fortunately we discovered that life’s balance doesn’t just happen on its own and we’ve come up with [...]

27 02, 2018

CouchTime 2.0

By |2019-01-18T16:54:12-07:00February 27th, 2018|Marriage, Parenting, Relationship|

In all the curriculum that we lead parents through, the concept of CouchTime remains as one of the most impactful tools we discuss.  Over the years we've had many parents ask us to provide more insight regarding CouchTime. So we thought it might be helpful to provide a little more detail regarding the why, when, where, and how of CouchTime. Why The Benefits of CouchTime for us were numerous. First of all, it got us [...]

14 02, 2018

Every Day is Valentine’s Day!

By |2018-02-14T06:48:47-07:00February 14th, 2018|Marriage, Personal, Relationship|

“Every day is Valentine’s Day!” is the usual quip Rich jokingly says to Shelly EVERY Valentine’s Day.  Yet, joking aside, it does lead to a very important question.  Are you intentionally expressing your love on a daily basis and is it being received effectively?  Or is it only intentionally expressed on special occasions… like Valentine’s Day? Simply saying “I love you” every day is nice, but sometimes it’s meaning can easily become diluted and be [...]

30 01, 2018

The Fruit of Parenting

By |2018-01-29T19:56:56-07:00January 30th, 2018|Family Culture, Parenting, Relationship|

This past weekend we celebrated Alex’s 18th birthday.  While we enjoyed laughing, celebrating and reminiscing about his 18 year journey, we were also reminded of our own parenting journey and two important perspectives we have learned through the years. Parenting is process Wouldn’t it be great if you could tell your children something once and they would fully comprehend the meaning of everything in your instruction.  Like, telling your kids to “play nicely” and they [...]

16 01, 2018

Freedom To Grow

By |2018-01-16T06:39:37-07:00January 16th, 2018|Family Culture, Parenting, Relationship|

Do you give your children the freedom to fail or make mistakes?  Or more appropriately, do you allow them freedom to grow with personal responsibility and ownership? Whether you are a child or an adult, failure is not failure if you learn and grow from it.  As parents, it’s especially difficult for us to see our children suffer frustration, experience emotional pain or the discomfort that comes with failing or making mistakes.  However, in order [...]

5 01, 2018

Staying on Track with Your Parenting

By |2018-04-15T15:00:35-06:00January 5th, 2018|Parenting, Personal|

Parenting is a process that has many seasons and phases.  There were times in our own parenting when we could easily get stuck in a particular season or phase. Typically we would become comfortable in the strategies that were working and forget to look ahead to the upcoming season in our boys’ growth and development. Before we knew it, Trevor and Alex had outgrown our parenting! Three Key Areas To Watch Evaluating kids’ freedoms and [...]

19 12, 2017

Top 10 Parenting Tips

By |2017-12-26T10:15:47-07:00December 19th, 2017|Marriage, Parenting|

"Be patient, be a good listener, be consistent..." these are just some of the more common “top parenting tips” you'll find when searching around the Internet.  And we would agree with many of those tips.  However, we thought it would be fun, and encouraging, to provide you with our top ten parenting tips that have most impacted us over the years. 10) Have fun and enjoy your kids – It was very easy for us [...]

5 12, 2017

Beginning to Feel Desperate

By |2018-01-21T08:37:41-07:00December 5th, 2017|Marriage, Parenting, Personal|

Shawn and I were beginning to feel desperate. Disagreements with each other were becoming more frequent and our kids’ behaviors were spiraling out of control as a result. We couldn’t seem to get on the same page when it came to parenting tactics, and truthfully, neither of us had a clue what we were doing. Differing, and often unspoken expectations about the way we were brought up and therefore the way we should be parenting [...]

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