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22 10, 2018

TEMPERAMENTS

By |2018-10-22T19:54:43-06:00October 22nd, 2018|Family Culture, Parenting, Relationship|

Have you ever considered the temperaments or taken a temperament test? Shelly and Trevor are Phlegmatic while Rich and Alex are Choleric. These are the temperaments in our family. Similar to love languages, temperaments are a tool that help us to describe our emotional/personality characteristics. We have found that knowing our own temperament and our boys’ temperaments has been very helpful in our parenting and understanding some of the dynamics in our relationships. We have [...]

1 10, 2018

Parenting in the Digital Age – Playing with Fire

By |2018-10-01T17:14:40-06:00October 1st, 2018|Family Culture, Health, Parenting|

Do you have a 4 year old that uses a tablet or 13 year old that is glued to their phone? If so, you have a Screenager!  A Screenager is any toddler, child or teen that actively uses digital media or technology.  And while there are many wonderful aspects of our Digital Age, there are also many challenges that come with it! Over the next three weeks, our goal is to equip and encourage you [...]

17 09, 2018

Do as I say not as I do

By |2018-09-17T15:33:40-06:00September 17th, 2018|Family Culture, Parenting, Relationship|

As parents, spouses, friends, and coworkers, it is much easier to give advice or instruction than to lead as the proper example ourselves. Often times it’s the old expression, “Do as I say, not as I do!” Of course we would never say that out loud, but subconsciously we probably say this more often than we care to admit. We know that we have caught ourselves plenty of times in these circumstances! When our boys [...]

3 09, 2018

Becoming the Wow Parent

By |2018-09-03T09:40:43-06:00September 3rd, 2018|Family Culture, Parenting|

We heard a terrific message by Andy Stanley on how leaders can be more effective, innovative and open to creative exploration when they have an attitude of “Wow” versus “How.”  Many great ideas and creative thoughts get shut down and lost when executives or managers focus on the “how” of an idea instead of encouraging further creative exploration with a “wow” response.  The same can be true in parenting. Are you a Wow Parent or [...]

28 08, 2018

Teaching Your Child Perseverance

By |2018-08-29T09:21:05-06:00August 28th, 2018|Family Culture, Parenting|

When you’re a young parent, you are likely in your 20’s or early 30’s. And because life is still new and coming at you pretty fast, there are so many things to learn and juggle that some elements just aren’t noticed or given the weight they should. That’s just the way of things. As life progresses and you get your footing, you gain the time and mindshare to look a little more deeply into the [...]

20 08, 2018

Marriage First

By |2018-08-21T13:47:48-06:00August 20th, 2018|Family Culture, Marriage, Relationship|

Having a healthy and thriving family begins with a health marriage. We believe that the marriage relationship should be the first priority within the family structure… even before our kids! In today’s society, there is constant pressure to put our children first above EVERYTHING else in the family environment.  This misguided prioritization can ultimately lead to child-centered parenting and even divorce.  Don’t get us wrong.  Our children are a top priority.  And just because we [...]

6 08, 2018

Back to School and Back on Track

By |2019-08-03T14:32:30-06:00August 6th, 2018|Family Culture, Parenting|

Back to school has always been very similar to the start of a new year for our family.  It marks the start of a new school year with renewed expectations and resolutions not only for our boys, but also for us as parents.  For the kids, it’s a great time to get them refocused on their schedules, routines and revisit some lessons that were learned or challenges faced in the previous school year.  For mom [...]

31 07, 2018

Getting FROM the Day

By |2018-07-31T13:01:40-06:00July 31st, 2018|Family Culture, Parenting, Relationship|

 Talking AT or Talking WITH Growing up, Dave’s dad would lecture. Great guy and all, but with a military background Dave’s dad wasn’t used to engagement. He would talk AT Dave. As a result, Dave often was frustrated with just standing there listening. Dave often thought he’d heard it before, so he’d say, “Yeah Dad, I know.” That response would upset his dad as being disrespectful and the heat would go up. Now, 40+ years later, Dave’s [...]

18 07, 2018

Camping Vacations!!

By |2018-07-18T08:50:14-06:00July 18th, 2018|Family Culture, Relationship|

Neither of us had done much camping growing up, so when we were invited to join some new friends to go camping, we jumped at the chance. Despite our little boy being only 1, we were sure it would be great fun. Ahem. Snow Mountain Ranch, the YMCA of the Rockies, is nestled among the lodge pole pines in near Winter Park. Before we were invited, the group had been doing the Labor Day weekend [...]

10 07, 2018

Travel Buddy or Travel Bandit?

By |2018-07-11T09:36:35-06:00July 10th, 2018|Family Culture, Parenting, Relationship|

Since we’re amidst the travel season, we thought it’d be appropriate to talk about traveling with children. This week is about planes, trains and automobiles, but next week is about camping. Yes, parents love their kids, but those rose-tinted glasses get a good cleaning when kids suffer the gauntlet of cramped seating, long waits, time changes, strange food, disrupted sleep schedules, and stressed parents. Strangers will give your parenting ability the evil eye if your [...]

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