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16 05, 2021

The Transitioning Parent

By |2021-05-16T14:34:55-06:00May 16th, 2021|Family Culture, Health, Letters, Marriage, Parenting, Relationship, Uncategorized|

If we’ve learned anything in the years we’ve lead parenting classes, it is this: The parenting process is a series of relational transitions.  In our Parenting Phases letter, we described four stages and the relational phases: Birth to Toddlerhood – Discipline Phase Toddlerhood to Childhood – Training Phase Childhood to Teenagers – Coaching Phase Late Teens though Adulthood – Mentoring/Friendship Phase It’s often difficult for parents to transition through each of these phases and make [...]

3 05, 2021

Savoring Motherhood

By |2021-05-03T15:06:05-06:00May 3rd, 2021|Family Culture, Parenting, Relationship|

With Mother’s Day approaching, Shelly reflects on four areas from her motherhood journey. _____________________ I feel truly blessed and grateful for the journey I’ve been on with Rich in raising our boys, now 23 and 21 years old.  We were in our mid-thirties when Trevor and Alex were born and we thought we would be great parents.  We quickly discovered all the ways parenting was going to challenge us.  As a mom, the experience has [...]

27 04, 2021

Untying the Knots of the Heart

By |2021-04-27T06:41:20-06:00April 27th, 2021|Family Culture, Marriage, Parenting|

Moms and Dads attend OneFamily parenting classes to find answers. Should a child sleep in the parent’s bed? Is offering a reward for good behavior a bribe? If you take away a privilege, how and when should you restore it? Are timeouts really effective? How do you get your children to play nice with one another? Should you spank, and if yes, then for what reason and how should you do it? How should you [...]

18 04, 2021

Emotional Needs and the Behavior Connection

By |2021-04-18T15:44:27-06:00April 18th, 2021|Family Culture, Parenting, Relationship|

When looking at your child’s behavior, have you ever considered their emotional health?  Certainly, there are many factors that influence emotional health, but over the years we have seen many situations were focusing on your child’s love language can greatly improve their overall disposition and behavior. You've probably heard of The 5 Love Languages: The Secret to Love that Lasts, by Gary Chapman.  Or perhaps you took the test as a part of a pre-marital [...]

13 04, 2021

One Minute More

By |2021-04-13T06:45:48-06:00April 13th, 2021|Family Culture, Parenting, Personal|

“You can do anything for 1 minute” is not just an easy phrase for parental encouragement, it’s a brick in the foundation of a child’s life. It isn’t long after babies become toddlers that parents should begin the long process of building character through self-discipline. Every era in childhood will present new opportunities for parents to develop in their children the strength to face the hard-earned ability of sticking with a task through the desire [...]

5 04, 2021

Raising Resilient Kids

By |2021-04-05T15:48:00-06:00April 5th, 2021|Family Culture, Parenting, Personal|

Our mindset has everything to do with our happiness and success in every area of life. What we’ve experienced over the last year has certainly amplified that in so many ways.  Dealing with the impact of the Pandemic has definitely affected our mindset. Navigating change, disappointment and uncertainty takes a lot of emotional work. We’ve all been under more stress and feeling more anxious which can manifest in some harmful ways if we let it.  [...]

30 03, 2021

Unlocked Potential

By |2021-03-30T07:46:57-06:00March 30th, 2021|Family Culture, Parenting, Personal|

Although we have a vague idea of what unlocked potential might mean, it is very clear what locked potential looks like – An intelligent teen who struggles with emotional instability; a gifted athlete who lacks motivation to try; a talented musician short on courage to perform; a disabled child who needs special attention. These types of examples create frustration for us observers who can envision what a joyous life they could have if they weren’t so [...]

22 03, 2021

Marriage First 2021

By |2021-03-22T13:36:33-06:00March 22nd, 2021|Family Culture, Marriage, Parenting|

Having a healthy and thriving family begins with a health marriage. We believe that the marriage relationship should be the first priority within the family structure… even before our kids! In today’s society, there is constant pressure to put our children first above EVERYTHING else in the family environment.  This misguided prioritization can ultimately lead to child-centered parenting and even divorce.  Don’t get us wrong.  Our children are a top priority.  And just because we [...]

15 03, 2021

Watering The Seedlings

By |2021-03-15T17:39:28-06:00March 15th, 2021|Family Culture, Parenting|

“But the fruit of the spirit is Love, Joy, Peace, Patience, Kindness, Goodness, Forgiveness, Gentleness, and Self-Control.” Galatians 5:22-23 “You will know them by their fruits.” Matthew 7:16   There are a few larger concepts that help guide parents in their everyday efforts at raising a family. We believe that Family Identity (Family Identity and Traditions, Memorized Family Identity) is one such concept which we reference constantly. Within that structure fits the rest of the ideas [...]

8 03, 2021

Whining & Temper Tantrums: Toddlers to Teens

By |2021-03-15T17:36:17-06:00March 8th, 2021|Family Culture, Parenting, Relationship|

Of all the expressions of unwanted behavior that we encounter during the course of parenting, Whining and Temper Tantrums seem to span all ages. Toddlers and Teens resort to whining when they don’t get their way, just as 3 year olds, 4th graders and high schoolers can all throw temper tantrums when they get frustrated. Unfortunately, you may even notice this behavior in adults as well. With all the COVID restrictions and spring fever in [...]

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