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18 12, 2021

A Significant Turning Point for OneFamily

By |2021-12-18T07:16:49-07:00December 18th, 2021|Letters, Personal|

As Christmas approaches and 2021 comes to an end, OneFamily had many significant accomplishments and blessings this year.  Impacting families to keep their marriages strong and creating a thriving home environment with meaningful and practical parenting programs is at the heart of what we strive for every year.  While there are many moving stories and situations that touched us this year, our journey with the Pulidos not only impacted us personally, but also our UnaFamilia [...]

27 08, 2021

Teaching “Margin For Error”

By |2021-08-27T08:57:29-06:00August 27th, 2021|Family Culture, Letters, Parenting, Personal|

Let’s say your 12-year-old son is twenty minutes late. He wanted to ride his bike to a friend’s house and promised to be home by 4:00 and now it’s 4:20. The bike ride required crossing a major intersection and called into question his capability and responsibility. Was he aware enough of traffic dangers and responsible enough to be safe and come home at the appointed hour? That was the plea and debate. In the end, [...]

7 08, 2021

Finding Balance

By |2021-08-08T13:55:10-06:00August 7th, 2021|Marriage, Parenting, Personal, Relationship|

When our boys were younger, we overloaded and overwhelmed our lives by trying to take advantage of every opportunity life presented – School activities, Sports, Etc... We naively thought balance and getting less busy in our lives would somehow occur on its own; thinking we had plenty of time and life would get less overwhelming in the near future.   Fortunately, we discovered that life’s balance doesn’t just happen on its own. So we came up [...]

13 04, 2021

One Minute More

By |2021-04-13T06:45:48-06:00April 13th, 2021|Family Culture, Parenting, Personal|

“You can do anything for 1 minute” is not just an easy phrase for parental encouragement, it’s a brick in the foundation of a child’s life. It isn’t long after babies become toddlers that parents should begin the long process of building character through self-discipline. Every era in childhood will present new opportunities for parents to develop in their children the strength to face the hard-earned ability of sticking with a task through the desire [...]

5 04, 2021

Raising Resilient Kids

By |2021-04-05T15:48:00-06:00April 5th, 2021|Family Culture, Parenting, Personal|

Our mindset has everything to do with our happiness and success in every area of life. What we’ve experienced over the last year has certainly amplified that in so many ways.  Dealing with the impact of the Pandemic has definitely affected our mindset. Navigating change, disappointment and uncertainty takes a lot of emotional work. We’ve all been under more stress and feeling more anxious which can manifest in some harmful ways if we let it.  [...]

30 03, 2021

Unlocked Potential

By |2021-03-30T07:46:57-06:00March 30th, 2021|Family Culture, Parenting, Personal|

Although we have a vague idea of what unlocked potential might mean, it is very clear what locked potential looks like – An intelligent teen who struggles with emotional instability; a gifted athlete who lacks motivation to try; a talented musician short on courage to perform; a disabled child who needs special attention. These types of examples create frustration for us observers who can envision what a joyous life they could have if they weren’t so [...]

8 02, 2021

What About Love

By |2021-02-08T17:18:18-07:00February 8th, 2021|Family Culture, Personal, Relationship|

With Valentine’s Day coming up, we want to offer you some practical ideas regarding love for your family.  Love can be expressed in a multitude of ways and it’s the greatest gift we can offer our spouse and children.  Here are three thoughts we continue to focus on in our marriage and family.  Being intentional with these things has changed who we are as a couple and who we’ve become as a family. Our Marriage and [...]

18 12, 2020

Holiday Stress 2020 – Finding Peace and Joy

By |2020-12-18T12:53:52-07:00December 18th, 2020|Family Culture, Personal, Relationship|

For the Howards, this is our favorite time of year.  It’s a great time to reflect upon our blessings, enjoy many family traditions, and refocus our perspective on our life’s priorities.  It truly is the most wonderful time of the year! However, in all that wonderfulness, it can also be the most stressful time of the year… Especially this year!  Many of us are missing loved ones and friends this Christmas Season as we practice [...]

3 08, 2020

Developing Discernment

By |2020-08-03T11:07:50-06:00August 3rd, 2020|Family Culture, Personal, Relationship|

As we have both grown and matured since getting married right out of college, there is one skill we have learned to develop that has been significant in all of our relationships.  Whether it is with our marriage, our children, our family and friends, or everyday relationships at work or in our community, learning the skill of discernment has become a game changer in our lives. Discernment is the ability to gain understanding in order [...]

28 07, 2020

Dream Catcher

By |2020-07-28T08:58:02-06:00July 28th, 2020|Parenting, Personal, Relationship|

Today’s Letter is from Dave to the Dads I put my hand on Dano’s forehead and started shaking it back and forth in a way I knew would make him laugh. “Ok, I see it. Here it comes¦. Wow! It’s a rocket ship and you’re blasting off into outer space.  Dano, this is going to be a great dream. Ok, you’re pressed back into your chair as the rocket leaves the earth’s orbit” as I [...]

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