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16 02, 2023

The Beginning of Adult Forgiveness

By |2023-02-16T08:39:41-07:00February 16th, 2023|Letters, Parenting|

One of the most powerful skills you can teach your child that will immensely increase their likelihood of a mature, well-balanced, happy, life is the skill of adult forgiveness. We’ve talked in these Letters about childhood forgiveness which is an important foundation for maintaining relationships and not being burdened by a heavy heart bound up by feelings of hurt in the early years. It’s foundational to release the hurt and move past the incident. Imagine [...]

5 02, 2023

The Transitioning Parent

By |2023-02-05T06:21:44-07:00February 5th, 2023|Letters, Marriage, Parenting|

If we’ve learned anything in the years we’ve lead parenting classes, it is this: The parenting process is a series of relational transitions.  In our Parenting Phases letter, we described four stages and the relational phases: Birth to Toddlerhood – Discipline Phase Toddlerhood to Childhood – Training Phase Childhood to Teenagers – Coaching Phase Late Teens though Adulthood – Mentoring/Friendship Phase It’s often difficult for parents to transition through each of these phases and make [...]

30 01, 2023

Heart Issues

By |2023-01-30T02:36:37-07:00January 30th, 2023|Letters, Parenting|

Reaching the heart of our children is every parent’s desire.  It is teaching them the How, the Why and the Way of God from whom all virtue flows and to impress these things upon their hearts. “Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your strength.  These commandments that I give you today are to be on your hearts.  Impress them on your children.  Talk about [...]

23 01, 2023

Strengthening Character with 2 Concepts

By |2023-01-23T15:40:40-07:00January 23rd, 2023|Letters, Parenting, Uncategorized|

As parents, it is a challenge and a blessing to provide the language that our children will use as the building blocks which forms their thinking structure. If we use constructive words, words of life, and positive reinforcement words when we encourage, then those are the concepts that will form their reality and the development of their character. Here are 2 concepts that have helped us with our children to develop their internal thought processes that affected their [...]

21 12, 2022

Investing in Family

By |2022-12-21T21:23:01-07:00December 21st, 2022|Letters, Parenting|

What does a healthy and thriving family look like? Certainly, there are many answers to this question, but we believe at the heart of a thriving family is a healthy marriage and effective parenting. It is an encouraging home environment where children flourish with everyone feeling emotionally and spiritually fulfilled in each other’s company. This holiday season, we’ve shared some wonderful success stories from parents that received equipping and encouragement from OneFamily – from Classes [...]

17 12, 2022

Keys to Intentional Parenting

By |2022-12-17T19:04:22-07:00December 17th, 2022|Family Culture, Letters, Parenting, Uncategorized|

Sometimes we can feel like we are winging it as parents.  The demands and pressure of life can get so overwhelming that we can get sidetracked from those meaningful things our hearts desire - like being a good intentional parent.  In desperation, when we often look for the one thing or a quick online resource to help us to put a “Band-Aid” on whatever issue of the day we’re dealing with in the moment.  All [...]

11 12, 2022

An Unexpected Blessing

By |2022-12-11T18:43:53-07:00December 11th, 2022|Letters, Parenting, Uncategorized|

A successful parenting journey requires consistency, patience and resolve.  Yet the journey is often filled with frustration, anxiety and, at times, hopelessness even when we are trying to do our best.  Thankfully, there are those moments that can unexpectantly encourage and sustain us in the process! Recently, we were blessed to see a heartwarming story on social media from friends and OneFamily leaders.  This story is a wonderful example of one of those unexpected moments [...]

10 12, 2022

Family Conversation Cards

By |2022-12-10T12:01:25-07:00December 10th, 2022|Letters, Parenting, Personal, Relationship|

When our boys were about 6 and 4 years old we began a new family tradition that helped us engage in meaningful conversations with them.  Little did we know how this tool would create many wonderful memories, help us communicate more effectively with our kids and take our parenting efforts and relationships with each of them to a higher level! As we head into Christmas and the New Year, we are excited to share that [...]

1 12, 2022

Character Training: Words of Life

By |2022-12-03T10:59:15-07:00December 1st, 2022|Family Culture, Letters, Parenting|

You are teaching your children how to be – to act, to speak, to think.   For as he thinketh in his heart, so is he. - Proverbs 23:7 As a Man Thinketh  - James Allen Let no corrupt communication proceed from your mouth but that which is edifying and ministers grace to the hearer. - Ephesians 4:29   We are programmable biologically to where the brain gets wired differently when we are bathed in [...]

11 11, 2022

Character Training: The Virtue of Balance

By |2022-11-11T18:54:51-07:00November 11th, 2022|Letters, Parenting|

The idea that you’ll raise your children the same, each receiving equal amounts of your time, energy, money and intangibles is a commendable idea, but unrealistic. Equality certainly should be true as it pertains to your love and your moral guidance, but the simple truth is that love is often perceived by children through the allocation of limited resources. Consider the scenario if you have 3 children in sports. A boy might be gifted in [...]

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