Parenting through the hubbub of the holidays can often leave one craving some downtime, taking the foot off the gas pedal of busyness and obligation, and just chilling with a warm mug of leftover Christmas glögg (Swedish warm spiced wine). Maybe after carving the ham, you can carve out some time before the New Year to think about the coming year. The fundamentals of life envisioned and acted upon, lead to growth, well-being, and happiness. [...]

Impacting and transforming families is at the heart of OneFamily.  We believe that begins with a healthy marriage. Over the years we have seen many parents come to a parenting class only to discover that the primary issue in their family dynamic is not parenting, but their marriage.  Typically, it’s one or a combination of these areas that is the issue: Lost Marriage Priority – Primary focus has been on children at the expense of [...]

OneFamily has partnered with several wonderful organizations to help families succeed in creating a life-giving home environment where marriages become stronger and children are thriving with effective parenting. What you may not be aware of is that we also reach Spanish speaking communities through UnaFamilia – Spanish is the third most spoken language in the world. Last year we highlighted Ministerio LA (Los Angeles, CA) and our friends the Pulidos. Through their ministry we’ve been [...]

The demands and pressure of life sometimes become overwhelming.  As a result, we can get sidetracked from the meaningful things our hearts desire – like being a good intentional parent.  In desperation, we look for the one thing or a quick online resource to help us to put a “Band-Aid” on whatever issue of the day we’re dealing with in the moment.  All the while, we keep thinking (hoping) that we’ll have time later to [...]

Impacting families in a transformative way is at the heart of our mission with OneFamily! It’s about building a loving and thriving home environment where children and marriages are flourishing with everyone growing, maturing, and feeling emotionally connected with one another. This means equipping families with practical resources, and encouraging them through the challenging days to persevere while sustaining them in their marriage and parenting journey. Today, families and marriages are facing challenges like never [...]

Is your family characterized by having an attitude of gratitude?  When creating family identity do you cultivate and teach gratitude?  Among the many reasons we love the Holiday Season, Thanksgiving to Christmas, is that it provided us a wonderful opportunity to build our family identity through family traditions that encouraged Trevor and Alex’s young hearts towards internalizing the virtue of gratitude. Family Identity with Family Traditions Family identity is an anchor for you and your [...]

Last week we shared Part 1 of Harmony with the Grandparents. ____________________________________________ “Hey Dad, can we talk for a minute?” “Sure, what’s up?” “I need to bring something up that’s an issue that is delicate. It’s about Mom and my wife.” “Ok, I’m listening.” “Well, I need to start by saying that I love you very much. I enjoy getting together and sharing my life with you. To see you playing with the kids and [...]

A functional relationship with the previous generation is a blessing to your family. The holiday gatherings, text banter, the regular FaceTime, weekend dinners with Grandma and Grandpa – your kids can grow up with a wholesome intergenerational connectedness that grounds them in a lifetime of wellbeing. But sometimes the relationship with parents or in-laws is such that harmony isn’t on the menu. There are a surprising number of marriages where the relationship with parents don’t [...]

As much as we enjoy Halloween, we were always glad when it was behind us.  Sure, we enjoyed many aspects of trick or treating like the time a 4-year-old Elvis impersonator came to the door and said, “Thank you.  Thank you very much” in his deepest little voice.  But, with all the fun and excitement, there is also a certain kind of craziness that is driven by the childhood narcotic – Candy.  It’s as if [...]

Blah. Blah blah. Blah. Blah, blah, blah! This is the sound or noise that children, spouses, and friends hear when we try to communicate during times of conflict.  Meaningful conversations and effective communication never occur when people are angry, frustrated, exhausted, feeling defensive or mentally preoccupied.  You cannot teach a child the principles of self-control while they are having a “level 10” meltdown in the grocery store.  Nor can you discuss marital issues (parenting, finances, [...]